we are buying a new home in orange county ca, & we have just 1 month to close & this is the first time for us..the builder is willing to give 20k incentives if i go with his lender ,but he is giving a higher interest rate..Does any body know of a good mortgage brokers in the orange county ,ca area

We went with Quicken Loans and were very happy with them. We found them online, but a representative came to our home to have us sign the paperwork for the closing. We would definitely go with them again in the future.
Be careful with any online lender for a purchase transaction. Quicken loans may be fine for a refi, but I’d think twice about if for a purchase….there’s just too many variables.
Regarding the builder’s lender – how much higher is his rate versus other lenders? How about if he gives you $10k or $5k, how does that affect the rate? Are the incentives towards upgrades or towards down payment and/or closing costs or perhaps a combo of all? If a credit towards closing – do you need the money?
Also, here’s some general info when comparing lenders:
1. Always make sure you are comparing the same product – eg, 30 yr fixed rate vs. 30 yr fixed rate
2. Always compare using the same down payment scenario – eg, 0% , 5%, 10% down, etc.
3. Always compare with same purchase price
4. Always compare using same timeframe to close – 30, 45, 60 days, etc.
5. Always compare rates paying 0 discount points and 0 origination fee. Ask what their “par rate” is.
These 5 steps sound basic, but you’d be surprised how many borrowers think A lender was better than B lender, but not realizing they were correctly comparing the numbers.
So, if you skip any of the above five steps, you will not get a true “apples to apples” comparison, and the rate could be different.